bagpuss wrote: Tue Feb 21, 2023 12:08 pm
Funnily enough, I haven't seen a single person arguing that bullying and racism will magically disappear because of the changing of a few words in a handful of books. So feel free to laugh at that idea all you like, as it's something you've made up.
On this very forum, only a week ago, there were people thinking that changing words would change physical reality. This belief is part of the hottest topic of the day. I really wish it was merely something I'd made up instead of a surreal current fad.
But a young child calling a black kid in their class the n word because they read it in a book and had no idea that in the 21st century it's pretty universally accepted as an appalling word that no one should use - that I can absolutely imagine happening. The fault of the parents for not teaching them that, you say? Well, funnily enough, I don't have time to read every book my child reads before they do and, as I said before, I most definitely cannot rely on my memory of those books from when I was a child. I've had to censor the n word at least twice from classic children's books, when reading them aloud. The sort of quality book that you'd happily let your child read without ever questioning it, because they're "good" books so why not? Both times I had to censor the word, I was completely taken aback and had to remind myself how long ago those books were written. Had I not been reading them myself, I would never have known that the word was in there. Why would I teach my child not to use a word that I have no reason to believe they've ever heard of?
Children discover some words are "naughty" when they are 3. You stinky poo poo. They delight in the naughtiness, just as they delight in disgust. By the time they are 5 you can laugh with them about how their 3 year old sister is saying bum.
Bagkitten understood years ago that words could offend and hurt people. Care with words is learned before school age. When we tell a child a word is hurtful they get it instantly, because they have been hurt by mean people teasing them. If you censor the word while reading to them, there's no-one to censor the word when they read alone. Surely it's far better to use the words and have the discussion? Children enjoy the complexity of language and are interested in how it evolved.
Twain is the go-to example of this and it's part of a child's entry into the world of slavery, racism and still existing bigotry. Obviously you can't just chuck Huck Finn at them but why sanitise it?
I 100% agree. Has anyone argued that "Matilda" should be removed from all libraries and bookshops, or Trunchbull's evilness dialled down so she's just a little bit annoying? If so, can you show me where?
Philip Pullman. He wants Dahl to fade away and go out of print.
The reason we mock Victorians for behaving this way is in large part because they were doing it to protect the perceived delicate sensibilities of adults. As I said before, that is an entirely different thing from editing for children. We have a 9pm watershed on tv so that we know that kids can watch things before that time and not be exposed to adult content. We have ratings for films so that we know whether something is suitable for a child to watch. The idea that things are edited or made differently in the first place for the consumption of children is pretty widely accepted. And again, at what point has anyone said that we should pretend that nasty things don't happen? I'm all for kids learning about awful things through fiction first, so that they can gradually discover the horrors of humans and their behaviour towards each other in a safe way where they can sleep afterwards because "it's just a story".
What I'm arguing for is certain language being changed so that kids (and I'm talking primary school kids here) don't read books and think that certain things are OK because they read them in a book. And by "think" there I'm not meaning a clear thought process, but just kids absorbing words and language and using those phrases word for word because they read them in a book that their teachers and parents allowed them to read, so they must be OK, right?
That's why, while I have no real issue with the word "fat" being used in a book, the word "fat" being used with the clear implication that the author is using it to mean that person is lazy and inferior in some way, that's a different thing and I'd be quite happy for that to be erased. I'm not saying that that's the case with Augustus Gloop by the way, I can't remember the full description of him, but I'm expanding on my earlier point about fat being a problem if it's used to mean a character flaw. Describing Mrs Twit as "ugly" to add to the idea that she's a horrible person, is another example of what I mean. A book that refers to people in Africa as N-words and also describes them in a very casual way as being less intelligent or in other ways inferior, would not suffer from having that section removed or tweaked.
I'm not sure what sort of children's book you are referring to here. Boys adventure book maybe, Rider Haggard or John Buchan? Those old colonial books aren't exactly flying off the shelves, but the readership is old enough to explore the issues I'd have thought.
And what about the kids whose parents are nasty bullies and are bringing their kids up that way too? Is it a good idea if the books they're reading are also teaching them that fat or ugly people are bad people, for example?
The pathway through that is empathy, and empathy is strengthened by fiction. As we know, there's a real problem in getting boys to read fiction. If they enjoy Dahl then push Dahl harder, don't say they'd be better off reading Malorie Blackman and Michael Morpurgo. With every book that's read, empathy is strengthened.
I really don't think you are going to get far with bullies brought up by awful parents by tweaking language and thinking it will change views. It's the story that changes views.
Also, I like to think that the bagkitten is pretty intelligent and acceptably well-educated. She has parents who do their best not to discriminate against people for any reason, and to make it very clear to her that anything like that is wrong. She reads lots of books, and thank f**k turned her nose up at anything pink and sparkly from an early age so she's definitely not living in some kind of sparkly unicorn bubble. But words, phrases and attitudes that we read repeatedly are sneaky buggers and can influence our own attitudes without us even realising it and I'd be happier if certain words, phrases and attitudes never got into her head in the first place. Stuff we read as kids sticks, firmly. I still sometimes, though thankfully now only in my own head, use the word "misled", pronounced my-zulled, because I read it in books as a kid and didn't know it was really mis-led. It has a subtly different meaning to mis-led as my understanding of the meaning from the context was obviously slightly off. But even decades later and despite having learned the correct wordage somewhere around pre-teen age, it's still in my head. Yes, that's different from nasty words or phrases, but it shows just how much things we read as kids sticks, even in this case when it was corrected when I was still a kid.
I agree, children absorb far more than we can imagine. They get this everywhere, from books to TV to overheard conversations. Which is why inoculation is needed, not avoidance. There's a flood of sexism coming Bagkitten's way from society, so let her see it in the books she reads. Don't you want Bagkitten to be enraged by the male default in books, rather than be placated with girl fox cubs? To discover that Dahl was wrong to equate physical unattractiveness to badness?